Kursusforberedelse

Inden du kommer til kursus eller i terapi, er det en god ide at tænke over, hvilke mål du har. Hvad er det du ønsker at opnå, hvad ønsker du dig i stedet for dit problem?

Som personlig forberedelse kan du udfylde skemaet family chronology. Det kan give dig et overblik, som kan gavne dig i din proces.

Great-Grandparents
FFF:
 
 
 
 
MFF: FMF: MMF: FFM: MFM: FMM: MMM:
 
Grandparents
Father of your father:
 
 
Siblings of your grandfather, chronological order:
 
 
Mother of your father:
 
 
Siblings of your grandmother, chronological order:
Father of your mother:
 
 
Siblings of your grandfather, chronological order:
Mother of your mother:
 
 
Siblings of your grandmother, chronological order:
 
Your parents:

Father:
 
 
Siblings of your father, chronological order:
 
 
 
 
Mother:
 
 
Siblings of your mother, chronological order:
You:                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Your partner:
 
 
Your siblings, chronological order:
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Siblings, chronological order:
 
 
Parents:
Your children:
 
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Answer all questions as carefully as possible. If you cannot answer them, guess. If you have difficulties with guessing, just make up something.
 
  Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
1. Father’s parents Father of the father
 
       
  Mother of the father
 
       
2. The siblings          
of your father          
and he himself          
(chronological order)          
 
 
         
3. Mother’s parents Father of the mother
 
       
  Mother of the mother
 
       
4. The siblings          
of your mother          
and she herself          
(chronological order)          
 
 
         
5. Date of marriage of your parents (if married):
 
 
place of marriage, how did they know each other, cicumstances, did their parents agree with this liaison?
 
 
 
  Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
6. You yourself and          
your siblings          
           
 
 
         
 
  Names Date of Marriage Name of New spouse three Traits describing the person.
7. If your        
parents are Father      
married twice Mother      
         
If one of the parents was married several times, specify it, in this case, use the verso.
 
 
  Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
8. If you have half-siblings          
 
 
 
 
 
 
       
9. Your own marriage, date:
 
 
 
If you are divorced or separated, when?
 
 
place of marriage, how did you know each other, circumstances, did your parents agree with this liaison?
 
 
 
Circumstances of the separation:
 
 
  Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
10. Your partner          
  Father        
Parents and Mother        
siblings
 
 
Siblings        
. Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
11. Your children,          
with your          
(first) partner
 
 
         
 
 
 
 
12. If you were married a second time, date:
 
 
If you are divorced or separated, when?
 
 
place of marriage, how did you know each other, did your parents agree with this liaison?
 
 
Circumstances of the separation:
  Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
13. Your 2nd partner          
  Father        
Parents and Mother        
siblings
 
 
Siblings        
. Names date of birth date of death
kind of death
three Traits describing the person.  
14. Your children,          
with your          
(second) partner
 
 
         
15. If you had additional marriages, please specify them using the verso.
 
16. Other facts that may be important (above all information on still births and miscarriages, abortions, early deaths of important persons and information on important love relationshipsapart from those listed). Important are naturally, wrere applicable, information on adoptive parents if you are adopted as well as on their family of origin.